10 Ways to De-Stress Your Life

Health & Lifestyle, Self-Regulation

Presented by Ella Woodward with Erin Zammett Ruddy (source)

  1. Don’t Put It Down, Put It Away
  • Saying you’re going to do something later is how clutter begins
  • Anything that can be done in 1 minute should be done right away
  • Tidy house, tidy mind
  • The more often you clean, the less you have to clean

2. Don’t Hit the Snooze Button

  • We should be going to bed and waking up around the same time
  • Get outside and into the sunlight ➜ tells your brain to wake up
  • Set yourself up for a great day ➜ how you wake up matters
  • Create a morning routine
brown couch beside clear glass panel door

3. Be Kinder to Yourself

  • Review and reflect at the end of each day
    • What went good? What went bad? What could have been better?
  • Do so from a place of gratitude
  • Everyday is a new day for new opportunities
  • We are all works in progress

4. Declutter Spaces

  • Focus on yourself, not the stuff
  • Think about the vision you have for your life and a space
    • E.g., a place of creativity
  • There are 2 types of clutter (Peter Walsh, author of Let It Go):
    • Memory: things we save because it reminds us of someone, an achievement or event
    • “I Might Need It One Day”: things saved for an imagined future
  • Re-name your “junk drawer” and organize it
    • 15-Minute Wins: 15 minutes is the time you should spend cleaning out this drawer
      • Dump, sort, divide, put back and away

5. Set Yourself Up For Success When Working from Home

  • Give yourself a specific area or corner to work from
  • Don’t start work the moment you wake up (have a morning routine)
  • Dress and feel like you’re working
    • If you’re out of your pajamas it signals to others you’re working
  • Don’t multi-task, set boundaries
    • Treat your workday like one and take real breaks
      • Give your brain a rest (e.g., go for a walk; don’t do a load of laundry)

6. Manage Your To-Do List

  • Don’t put things on a to-do list you know you won’t do
  • Transferring your list onto a calendar with a specific time frees it from your mind
  • “Eat a frog” (Mark Twain): it’s best to do big tasks first things in the morning when you’re more awake/alert
    • Wake up early, be productive, knock things off your list
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7. Manage Your Inbox / Emails

  • Get new emails out of the way first
  • Focus on writing clear emails in the subject line (start with the conclusion in mind)
    • Use bullet points and white space (people are usually reading emails on their devices)
  • Reply All if you’re on a chain (so everyone knows they have your buy-in)
  • CC only the necessary people when sending emails
  • Give specific deadlines
    • Don’t use “by end of day” (everyone’s “end of day” is different)
    • Give a specific time (e.g., Friday at 3:15 pm)  
  • Write efficient emails
    • Bold certain things, get to the points
    • Write emails that are easy to respond to

8. Meditate

  • “If you want to make your body stronger, you have to move it. If you want to strengthen your brain, you have to keep it still.” – Suze Yalof Schwartz
  • Practice a 5-minute meditation in the morning (see: Meditation Tools & Tips)
    • Close your eyes, quiet your mind, focus on your breath (putting hand on chest helps)
    • Be in the present moment
    • Name it (thoughts, feelings) to tame it
serene plus size female meditating in lotus pose

9. Take Naps

  • Put yourself in a quiet room, remove devices
  • Keep room cool (a slight drop in body temperature signals sleep to your brain)
  • Set yourself up (e.g., sleep aids: sleep mask, white noise)
  • Have a piece of paper to write things down that may come to mind right before you go to take a nap
  • The best time to take a nap is when you feel you need it and are able to

10. Say No

  •  Ask yourself: “Would I be willing to do this tomorrow?”
  • Think about your future self
  • Remind yourself that your time is valuable
  • Being busy is different from being productive
    • Fill your calendar with things that are important to you and that you have to do
  • As soon as you know you’re going to say no, say no (Book suggestion: Set Boundaries, Find Peace)

Final Reminders

  • Be considerate of your future self (e.g., when waking up, spending money, with what you’re eating)
  • Focus on how you’re doing things
    • Be more mindful and conscious
    • Find joy in the tiny areas of life that are apart of life (e.g., washing dishes, making the bed, etc.)
  • Make small changes that have a big payoff on your well-being

Resources:

The Little Book of Life Skills by Erin Zammett Ruddy



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Sleep & Stress Management

Health & Lifestyle

Presented by Rhiannon Lytle, RHN with Organika (source)

How Much Should I Sleep?

  • Adults should get 7-9 hours daily of quality sleep for proper repair
  • It’s important to sleep more, especially during times of stress or illness
  • Don’t hit snooze!
    • Your body re-enters a REM cycle and gets ready to sleep
    • Tip: Set alarm 1.5 hours before you want to wake up; go back to sleep for a 90-minute REM cycle (the average REM cycle for most people) 
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When Should I Sleep?

  • According to the Traditional Chinese Body Clock, our body has certain hours targeted at certain organs
    • E.g., 1 a.m. to 2 a.m. is the time our liver is functioning at its highest;
    • If we’re staying up until 2 a.m., our liver is not getting the support needed to detox the things in our body which can cause inflammation, our immune system to not function at its best, and/or poor bowel movements 
  • In Western culture, we recognize the natural cortisol curve
    • Should be highest first thing in the morning and tapers off mid-day (groggy feeling we experience)
    • Can shift with your body, such as if you work nights
  • Ideally, you should be asleep by 11 p.m. and wake around 7 a.m. (at least 8 hours; can be adjusted depending on your schedule) 
  • Why?
    • Detox support
    • Works with our natural cortisol curve 

How to Practice Good Sleep Hygiene 

  • Nighttime routines are essential to prepare for bed 
    • Putting phone away 1 hour before bed 
    • Turning off notifications while sleeping 
    • Sleep with phone outside room 
      • Quality is just as important as quantity 
    • Have room as dark as possible (e.g., eye mask, blackout curtains) 
    • Try white noise or ear plugs
    • Avoid alcohol close to bed so body can digest it before you sleep
  • Supplement support:
    • Magnesium
    • Herbal teas (chamomile, passionflower, valerian root)
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Magnesium 

  • An essential mineral for overall health 
  • Involved in hundreds of body functions 
  • Allows body tissues to relax, from the muscles to digestive tract and the nervous system
  • Commonly found types of magnesium supplements:
    • Magnesium Citrate
      • Magnesium bound to a salt, like citrate 
      • 30-40% is absorbed, relaxing muscles and nerves 
      • Used for issues with constipation
        • Helps the digestive system 
    • Magnesium Bisglycinate 
      • Magnesium combined with the amino acid glycine 
      • High absorption, less digestive side-effects
    • Magnesium L-threonate 
      • Another magnesium + amino acid combo 
      • Most effective at reaching the nervous system 

Stress & Immunity

  • Sleep and stress are linked
    • When stressed, increases in cortisol can shut down body functions that aren’t deemed “essential”, such as:
      • Digestion
      • Reproduction
      • Immune function

Short vs. Long-Term Stress

How to make stress your friend (TedTalk)

  • Short-term stress
    • Natural – we’re supposed to experience it 
    • Beneficial to our immune system and can boost inflammation response
      • E.g., Inflammatory response helps to heal wounds faster 
    • Can boost energy (fight-or-flight response)
      • In fight-or-flight mode, your body shuts down functions that aren’t deemed “essential” (digestion, reproduction, immune function)
  • Long-term stress
    • More apparent in society today
    • Can lead to:
      • Chronic inflammation
      • Poor digestion
        • We need a lot of nutrients to ensure our immune system is in shape
        • If we’re not digesting properly, we’re not absorbing properly (supplements can be helpful)
        • Develop stress management techniques before eating 
      • Imbalanced hormones
    • Adaptogens may help support chronic stress
      • Helps us to adapt and find “homeostasis” (balance)
      • Needs to be taken consistently to see the affects 
      • Powders absorb better than capsule 
    • What to look out for:
      • Feeling “wired but tired”
      • Having no energy to do anything
      • Unable to focus
      • Crashing extremely hard
      • Physically fatigued 
depressed black man touching face in frustration near window

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woman doing cobra pose

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This website is provided only for informational purposes and not intended to be used to replace professional advice, treatment or professional care. Always speak to your physician, healthcare provider or pediatrician if you have concerns about your own health or the health of a child.