10 Ways to De-Stress Your Life

Health & Lifestyle, Self-Regulation

Presented by Ella Woodward with Erin Zammett Ruddy (source)

  1. Don’t Put It Down, Put It Away
  • Saying you’re going to do something later is how clutter begins
  • Anything that can be done in 1 minute should be done right away
  • Tidy house, tidy mind
  • The more often you clean, the less you have to clean

2. Don’t Hit the Snooze Button

  • We should be going to bed and waking up around the same time
  • Get outside and into the sunlight ➜ tells your brain to wake up
  • Set yourself up for a great day ➜ how you wake up matters
  • Create a morning routine
brown couch beside clear glass panel door

3. Be Kinder to Yourself

  • Review and reflect at the end of each day
    • What went good? What went bad? What could have been better?
  • Do so from a place of gratitude
  • Everyday is a new day for new opportunities
  • We are all works in progress

4. Declutter Spaces

  • Focus on yourself, not the stuff
  • Think about the vision you have for your life and a space
    • E.g., a place of creativity
  • There are 2 types of clutter (Peter Walsh, author of Let It Go):
    • Memory: things we save because it reminds us of someone, an achievement or event
    • “I Might Need It One Day”: things saved for an imagined future
  • Re-name your “junk drawer” and organize it
    • 15-Minute Wins: 15 minutes is the time you should spend cleaning out this drawer
      • Dump, sort, divide, put back and away

5. Set Yourself Up For Success When Working from Home

  • Give yourself a specific area or corner to work from
  • Don’t start work the moment you wake up (have a morning routine)
  • Dress and feel like you’re working
    • If you’re out of your pajamas it signals to others you’re working
  • Don’t multi-task, set boundaries
    • Treat your workday like one and take real breaks
      • Give your brain a rest (e.g., go for a walk; don’t do a load of laundry)

6. Manage Your To-Do List

  • Don’t put things on a to-do list you know you won’t do
  • Transferring your list onto a calendar with a specific time frees it from your mind
  • “Eat a frog” (Mark Twain): it’s best to do big tasks first things in the morning when you’re more awake/alert
    • Wake up early, be productive, knock things off your list
brown framed eyeglasses on a calendar

7. Manage Your Inbox / Emails

  • Get new emails out of the way first
  • Focus on writing clear emails in the subject line (start with the conclusion in mind)
    • Use bullet points and white space (people are usually reading emails on their devices)
  • Reply All if you’re on a chain (so everyone knows they have your buy-in)
  • CC only the necessary people when sending emails
  • Give specific deadlines
    • Don’t use “by end of day” (everyone’s “end of day” is different)
    • Give a specific time (e.g., Friday at 3:15 pm)  
  • Write efficient emails
    • Bold certain things, get to the points
    • Write emails that are easy to respond to

8. Meditate

  • “If you want to make your body stronger, you have to move it. If you want to strengthen your brain, you have to keep it still.” – Suze Yalof Schwartz
  • Practice a 5-minute meditation in the morning (see: Meditation Tools & Tips)
    • Close your eyes, quiet your mind, focus on your breath (putting hand on chest helps)
    • Be in the present moment
    • Name it (thoughts, feelings) to tame it
serene plus size female meditating in lotus pose

9. Take Naps

  • Put yourself in a quiet room, remove devices
  • Keep room cool (a slight drop in body temperature signals sleep to your brain)
  • Set yourself up (e.g., sleep aids: sleep mask, white noise)
  • Have a piece of paper to write things down that may come to mind right before you go to take a nap
  • The best time to take a nap is when you feel you need it and are able to

10. Say No

  •  Ask yourself: “Would I be willing to do this tomorrow?”
  • Think about your future self
  • Remind yourself that your time is valuable
  • Being busy is different from being productive
    • Fill your calendar with things that are important to you and that you have to do
  • As soon as you know you’re going to say no, say no (Book suggestion: Set Boundaries, Find Peace)

Final Reminders

  • Be considerate of your future self (e.g., when waking up, spending money, with what you’re eating)
  • Focus on how you’re doing things
    • Be more mindful and conscious
    • Find joy in the tiny areas of life that are apart of life (e.g., washing dishes, making the bed, etc.)
  • Make small changes that have a big payoff on your well-being

Resources:

The Little Book of Life Skills by Erin Zammett Ruddy



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Meditation Tools & Tips

Health & Lifestyle

Presented by Lilly Balch (The Morning Ritual Podcast)

Meditation Practice Tools & Tips

1. Time & Place

woman in black tank top sitting beside man in black shirt
Photo by cottonbro studio
  • Start first thing in the morning
  • Choose the same spot every day
  • Consistency is key
  • Do 2 minutes every morning vs 20 minutes once a week
  • Practice in a space free of clutter, distraction and noise
  • Show up!

2. Get Comfortable

  • Set yourself up for success
  • Feel physically supported

3. Don’t Worry If You’re Doing It Wrong, You’re Not!

  • There is no perfect way to meditate
  • Be at ease with the fact that you’ve showed up

4. It’s Not about Clearing the Mind

  • Thoughts are normal and can’t be shut off
  • Practicing is about focusing attention and strengthening mindfulness and awareness muscles

5. Approach Meditation with a Beginners Mind

  • Don’t compare to previous meditation practices
  • Hopes, fears, desires and expectations can interfere with meditation
  • Release the desire to control the outcome
  • Simply be!
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Tips for Teachers Going Back to Work

Early Childhood, Health & Lifestyle, Self-Regulation

I still can’t believe I’ve been out of the classroom for half a year. I say half a year because it’s actually really been that long. Since going on March Break, I have not been back to my school building since. In the last 6 months, I navigated and transitioned to online learning with preschoolers and then went straight into summer break. This has been an interesting year to say the least and I’m surprised at how quickly it has flown by, despite everything that has happened. I can’t help but say that I’m excited, (but mostly nervous) to go back to work, considering it’s been such an uncertain and scary time. That being said, I decided to put together a few tips for teachers who, like myself, will be heading back to the classroom (or maybe teaching online), very soon. Writing this and sharing these resources has given me some confidence, optimism and peace of mind about however this 2020-21 school year is meant to unfold, and my hope is that after reading this you will feel the same too.

self care isn t selfish signage
Photo by Madison Inouye

Find Your Calm – Explore Self-Reg and you will come to learn about Lending Your Calm. (I’m in the process of taking a second course with them.) However, I believe that in order for teachers (or anyone) to be able to lend their calm to their students and parents during this time, they first need to be able to find it. Stop and think to yourself, what exactly does calm feel like for me? What are some things that help me to feel calm? For me, it’s doing yoga, listening to music, working out, reading a book, and other times it’s meditating or taking a few deep breaths. Through these practices and activities, I’ve learned what calm feels like. When I’m not feeling it, I know exactly what helps me to get to that state. These past few months have been stressful on us all. This is why it’s so important to practice self-care and find what brings you calm so that you can bring that with you (as best as you can!) each day to work. We’ll surely need it!

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Photo by Pixabay

Lend Your Calm – Once you discover what brings you calm and what that feels like, create that in your classroom environment. Calm begets calm. Our body is an energy source, allowing us to feel the vibrations from others. This is also known as limbic resonance or emotional contagion. Children are also able to feel and feed off of the energy from the adults in their lives and from their peers. For example, have you ever noticed how sometimes it only takes one student to change the energy of the entire class? When you feel calm, you can create that same feeling in your students, simply by just feeling it yourself. The beginning of the school year is naturally always stressful for teachers, parents and students. Apart from being calm yourself, think about the many ways you can create a calm and inviting classroom, overall school environment, or virtual learning experience. Whether it’s having less things mounted on the walls, playing calming music, integrating mindfulness-based activities (by engaging your student’s senses), or simply asking your student’s how they’re doing and feeling; when kids are not stressed and feel a sense of safety and calm, they are ready and able to learn at their best. 

woman applying hand sanitizer
Photo by Anna Shvets

Practice Consistency – The beginning of this school year will certainly be like no other. With new policies, guidelines and routines put into place, I imagine it will feel very different and new for us. If you’re physically back at school, it may take time to remember all the new rules and best practices such as washing or sanitizing your hands before and after removing your mask, but with consistency, you will naturally build up the habit of doing so. I’ve already started doing this when I go out so that it won’t all feel entirely new when I go back to work. It’s also important to build these practices with your students. It’ll all be new for them too and it’s much easier to build a routine and habit at the very start of a school year rather than later or halfway through it. Keep in mind that these procedures are in place to ensure the health, safety and well-being of both the school and external community. If you’re unsure about something regarding any of the new changes, don’t hesitate to ask and find out the right answers.

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Photo by cottonbro

Stay Connected – Whether it’s with your family, friends or colleagues, stay connected with the people in your life. Maybe it’s catching up with a friend over the phone or sending an email to a fellow colleague to see how they’re doing. At the end of the day, we are social beings with a desire to connect, and simply having a chat with someone important in your life may be all it takes to turn your own or someone else’s day around. Lean on your support system when needed and make opportunities for connection with others a part of your daily routine. You’ll truly notice the difference it makes in your attitude, the way you feel, the way you go about each day, and it’s also a great way to boost your immune system!

anonymous ethnic tutor helping little multiracial students with task in classroom
Photo by Katerina Holmes

Take It Slow – Regardless if you’ve been teaching for 20 years or are a new teacher starting your first year, this school year will be new for all of us. New students, families, routines, schedules, procedures, guidelines, expectations, and much more. If you’re finding that you’re already beginning to feel overwhelmed, go back to Finding Your Calm. Notice what you’re feeling and find what feels good and what brings you a sense of calm. One thing I always practice is mindfulness and living in the present moment. I can’t worry and be anxious about the first day of school because I don’t know what to expect. I’m only in control of the here and now so that’s what I choose to focus on. As each day comes and goes, take it slow, ask the questions you need answers to, build relationships and connections, and most importantly, be kind and do your best. And remember, you are the expert in pedagogy and curriculum. Be confident in your abilities, strengths and everything you already know. We got this!

Got more tips for teachers going back to school? Share them in the comments below!


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This website is provided only for informational purposes and not intended to be used to replace professional advice, treatment or professional care. Always speak to your physician, healthcare provider or pediatrician if you have concerns about your own health or the health of a child.